"The goal (in relationships/marriage) is to find your best friend who you get to have a slumber party with for the rest of your life. It is not to find the best looking person and we’re just going to make out all the time and we’re all going to look like we’re 20 forever. The way you look now won’t always be there., but the heart that beats underneath, the personality that fits so well with yours, the person who knows how to celebrate you, that’s what you want."
"When we hold each other, in the darkness, it doesn’t make the darkness go away. The bad things are still out there. The nightmares still walking. When we hold each other we feel not safe, but better. “It’s all right” we whisper, “I’m here, I love you.” and we lie: “I’ll never leave you.” For just a moment or two the darkness doesn’t seem so bad."
"Good friends are really hard to find. They gotta be there for you even when you’re wrong. But at the same time, they can’t just tell what you wanna hear. They’ve also gotta be willing to tell you what you need to hear. That’s the real reason true love’s so hard to find. Because the basis of love is friendship. And friendship is really, really rare."